Comparing yourself to others is the best way to be unhappy! A journey of FIRE (financial independence retire early) and journey of life…
Watkins Glen State Park, NY Unknown: “A cemetery is the only place where people don’t try to keep up with the Joneses.” Recently, my wife shared with me a video of a psychiatrist who was discussing the topic of happiness. In the video, she was discussing all the ways one can try to be happy and all the ways one can try to be unhappy. Out of all the good things she discussed, one of the statements that stuck with me was when she stated that comparing yourself to others is the worst enemy of happiness . That really got me thinking. When I was a young teenager, like everyone in that age bracket, I lived to be like someone else. I wanted to be like Michal Jordan, Bruce Lee , or any number of famous celebrities that were rich and famous. This got me into learning Taekwondo to try to emulate Bruce Lee, and this got me copying basketballs moves ala Michael Jordan. Although I didn’t become any one of my idols, I at least got to experience what...