What is happiness? A journey of FIRE (financial independence retire early) and an early retiree’s thoughts…
Toby being happy (June 2021) Abraham Lincoln: “Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.” As I write this post on a beautiful sunny and a warm sunny afternoon in June, I’m pondering why someone is happy or unhappy. I got thinking of this important question that humans have been asking themselves over the millennia thanks to couple of very disparate things that happened on the same day. On that same day, we went shopping for food at Walmart on a very busy Saturday. As we were checking out, we got the sense our cashier wasn’t having a good day. She ignored our greeting for the most part, and she was curt in her reply of our parting greeting of “have a nice day.” She replied with a “yeah” to our greeting, which I thought was rude and inappropriate. It was bad manners and bad attitude all the way around… It immediately got me thinking right then and there why she was so unhappy that instance. Was it the fact that she’s...